It is not just the day of a week or the month of the year you are looking for your perfect mate. I have tried all the gym, parks, beaches, coffee houses, bars, but he is no where. The hunt is 24X 7X 365, in all the places, then why don’t I get that love, you may ask very vexed. But the fact is that you need proper guidance before you get back to the hunting job again.
Since it’s very hard to find him, let’s look at the alternatives:
Mr. Right Here
Could be the guy who is versatile. He works in your branch or lives in your apartment house. He may be the kind neighbor of your best friend. You’ve seen him so frequently that he merges into the scenery.
He’s not loud-mouthed or nor a chaser. There is nothing very spicy. He’s plainly a nice guy, hard working and not trying too hard to impress you. So you thought he is not the one.
Mr. Right Now
Could be the guy who’s chasing you out for dates repeatedly, He yearns to spend time with you, but you aren’t mesmerized by him. At last, you look around and see all of your friends with their mates, so you decide to stick to him.
You do not have too be left alone, while your friends have wonderful company to enjoy the life with. You have no other options and so you are with him. But if you look inside the story, if you search for the feeling place, you may say may be I am already in relation with my Mr. Right. We humans are often searching for things here and there where as we are already holding it in our hands. We do this mistake unknowingly. Are you doing that mistake: ask yourself.
Mr. Right for Them
Could be the man that everyone is convinced is right for you. He’s the son of your parents’ contacts and they’ve planned numerous times so that you could both could get together. He may be your relative’s friend or your friend’s relative. People feel you both can make a better match and they motivate you while you yourself find it suitable or sometimes confusing. In this case you must ponder well and come to a conclusion for it is not they who are getting into the commitment; it is you who is going to live with him for a life time. It is your life and he should have your consent to make it better.
Mr. Right But
Some things are perfect yet come with certain imperfections. May be some one who you find Mr. Right is attracted to you just as you are to him. But then he could be a divorced with kids to take care of so you do not want to get into that friends dating responsibility, you need to have a break then.
Life is not a bed of roses or neither is it a fairy tale. You need to face the practical things in a matured manner if you want the fruits of a wonderful relationship. Some good adjustments with open mind and optimistic way can lead to wonderful things in life which you may not even imagine. But if you keep fussing you need to face lack also.
So where is my Mr. Right?
Ask yourself. Do not simply act like little girl who imagines life to be a fairy tale. Your Mr. Right would never come to pick you riding a white horse. Be practical and search for your soul mate with a feeling of having and not the lack. Because what you feel can fill your life with similar things.